I need a way to control a remote desktop to help out a friend and I found TightVNC. I had him install the app and run the "
server", then I installed the app on my machine and launched the "viewer". When I lauched the viewer it asked me for "vnc server"...which I assume it wants to know which machine I want to connect to. I had my friend mouse-over the VNC icon in his system tray, but it only shows him his LAN IP address of 192.168.0.3. Obviously that isn't what I need to connect to his machine....now what?
Possible Solution
If he has a router which it sounds like he has then you will need to setup a port forward on the router so port 5800 and 5900 are forwarded through to his pC. obviosuly that does leave you a bit open potentially on the internet unless you restrict it to certain IP addresses using a firewall if the router has one. You then connect to the IP his router has - www.
microshirt.com is a quick easy way to get that (from his machine of course)